Sexual Deception-Don't Fake it Ladies Speak up!

Joe said:
I never could understand how a guy could be satisfied knowing his partner was not satisfied. Wake up guys, women need to be satisfied in bed and emotionally.
Posted on October 30, 2009 at 7:27 pm.

BlkAndUglyAzEver said:
A Lamont Shockley:Sounds good,nicely stated but at the same time all that could be avoided regardless of how many people whoever slept with if that person has reached the point of closure and officially leaves the past behind .......and you're example is a common case of I dont know how many but not everyone calls it splitsville on bad terms where it takes a bad turn in the bedroom for future lovers.Good Job though!!!!
Posted on October 22, 2009 at 4:42 pm.

Anthony said:
Damn A. Lamont THAT IS 100% TRUTH! SPEAK ON IT.
Posted on October 22, 2009 at 7:06 am.

A. Lamont Shockley said:
This is going to be an "ouch" moment for some of you and I apologize in advance if I hit your bunyon or corn on your feet as I pass by. The most unsatisfied people sexually who are having sex are the ones who have had the most partners. Think about this, each person you have had sex with leaves a part of who or what they are with you after they are gone. Things left include insecurities, low self esteem, aggression, perversion, insolence, and a whole host of things. Add to that the fact that the mind truly never forgets anything, it just displaces information to other regions where it might not be readily available. So you're getting with this guy or that woman carrying the baggage you picked up from the last one, and while you think that the new person is new...you are psychologically comparing them to someone or something from a past experience. Example, Johnny;mean and a player who cheated on you all the time, was hung like a horse and made me cry. Sammy is not so endowed but he is good to you and has other skills in the bedroom. Now you would think that Miss Thing should be satisfied with Sammy, but she is not because she is still attached to Johnny mentally. Case in point is that while she is having sex with Sammy, she is still remembering what it was like to be with Johnny. And, you cannot fill your hands or your mind with new when it is still occupied with the old. comments welcome....
Posted on October 22, 2009 at 5:28 am.

Tim said:
I'd be extremely mad if my I found out my wife was not being satisfied and never told me. Both partners need satisfaction.
Posted on October 11, 2009 at 9:12 am.

Luke said:
I think that guys could get involved with using a vibe on their lady. I love using a vibrator on my girl, I get her all worked up, get involved myself and then we are both happy.
Posted on September 23, 2009 at 7:44 pm.

Rebellyus said:
Yeah I agree, alot of women do lie like there satisfied. A man knows he cant be performing right with every woman hes been with because not all women like or want the same thang. I always have to adapt.
Posted on August 18, 2009 at 12:02 pm.

chickenhead4life said:
What a woman really means when she isn't satisfied means 2 things. 1) I didn't get my rocks off is his penis is small SOLUTION:get a vibrator 2) I feel insecure I need more attention/affection because his little limp penis isn't hittin my g-spot SOLUTION: get a strap on, they come in assortmnet of colors! All this about how I am not gonna approach him to tell him my issue with his performance is chicken feed...sometimes u women just gotta be the man...grow some balls (they can also be bought at a good price with strap ons) and say F&#@$ it...I'm gonna beat my own s*it and give my self a hug.Women stop flipfloppin, make your minds up...if your own sex gratification was such a priority then y ya'll stay in those toxic relationships...remember: If it takes convincing and persuading get a vibrator for all ur personal needs: orgasms for him and u then u can beat him over the head with it for alittle afterplay! Now time to go over to the chicken coup for alittle henpecking!!! CLUCK CLUCK!
Posted on July 14, 2009 at 5:10 pm.

Valencia Carillo said:
I put in woman talk for you Blk, dont be offended.
Posted on July 9, 2009 at 3:14 am.

BlkAndUglyAzEver said:
I thought I covered that stuff already...Hmmm maybe I didnt...atleast I thought I did!!!!
Posted on July 9, 2009 at 3:10 am.

Valencia Carillo said:
Asian10, I have to add again a selfish man is no fun and. You feel used. Forget it, leave now though I know you wont! Consider this too. How old is he? Some men are stuck in their ways and wont change. Some men have had certain things all their life certain ways from certain woman and are just plain use to it. How about you play a lil mind game to help. Maybe seem turned off, seem un-interested although it may not be hard for you at this point, tell him you feel used. Ok that may be bad but it may also be an eye opener. Maybe he will say why dont you want to and then is when you can woman up and say because 2 people are having sex for you!
Posted on July 9, 2009 at 3:07 am.

Valencia Carillo said:
If hes your man, speaking up shouldnt be an issue. Looks to me like first and foremost you might have to learn communicating about certain things. Once you are comfortable enough with saying how you feel, the words should flow. "Babe, I want this this time", "Babe what about me", "Babe Im feeling a little left out, your honey needs this or that". I say Babe just to keep it safe. No attitudes,etc. Men can be very selfish and if he is already to deep in, sorry to say hes spoiled and may not ever change. NO LIE! I have had a selfish selfish man and it is no fun at all. Get hard on him, tell him what you want before you seek elsewhere but be nice first! If he loves you and cares about how you feel hes gonna make the necessary changes but if he doesnt then you know what that means (learn to deal with it or without it). Communicate with him and saying it is easy as long as yo say it sweet and throw your sexy in there.
Posted on July 9, 2009 at 3:02 am.

BlkAndUglyAzEver said:
One more thing Asian 10...about the indirect route.The number he tells you will simply be a monitor to let you know where he feels he stands with you in the bedroom. Basically, it's up to you to get behind the steering wheel and guide him to the places you want him to go.Some men are really clueless but that doesnt mean they dont have potential. Give it a try and see if he's making progress.If things aren't going your way after ummm 4 sessions. Hand him the papers for failing the sex improvement program...Seriously or take a trip with the amusement park kinda guy. Betcha wont be back! ha haaaaaaaa
Posted on July 9, 2009 at 2:44 am.

BlkAndUglyAzEver said:
Ummm Asian 10,you ever heard of walking papers? It's actually your fault for letting him fall into a comfort zone where he's satified with his routine style via using your assets to satify his needs only.Use some trickery by asking your man,"Baby, I was taking this online poll and it's asked on a scale of 1 to 10 how do you rate your man's performance.See what he says.Evidently you feel there's room for improvement so see if he's aware of that by what number he says.Believe it or not he might not even know that he sucks in bed.If you want to take the blunt route,next time ya'll are about to get down,tell him EXACTLY what you want him to do.If he cooperates and makes effort to please you,keep him.If sex and all the little things that get you arroused arent be administered to after taking the indirect and blunt procedures....Asian10 hand him the walking papers unless there's something else about him that's keeping you there.Your man's worse enemy would be a guy who treats you like an amusement park in bed and takes you on all kinds of rides and makes you smile like a lil kid with a kool-aid smile cuzz that experience was soooo damn good!!! Trust me on that.
Posted on July 9, 2009 at 2:29 am.

Asian10 said:
Okay question for you guys BLk, Tyra, Khristal, Valencia, etc. How do you speak up? My man is so selfish! How do you say it ?
Posted on July 9, 2009 at 2:00 am.

Valencia Carillo said:
Get a vibrator ??? wow to the bold one who said that. Well fortunately for me I have one but the problem with that is it doesnt come with the arms or the legs to wrap around you, and um it doesnt include the option for a woman to just lay there and do nothing and enjoy every now and then. Nor does it involve what was just mentioned and is very very very important "Passion". If you get to use to that thing, you might make it harder for your man for those addicted. To go a little left here ad touch on oral.....MEN please PLEASE PLEASE understand going down there and just licking doesnt get the job done nor does it feel good unless you are on that spot. It for me is annoying as hell!!! I can immediately tell when you begin if its gonna work or not and if I see that it doesnt I want you up right then and there.
Posted on July 9, 2009 at 1:15 am.

Khristal said:
Well said Blkandugly well said!!....lol Passion has a lot to do with it too.
Posted on July 9, 2009 at 12:10 am.

BlkAndUglyAzEver said:
I feel ya Tyrone and I've felt like that too depending on who the woman is......Tyralookalike,think about it. You have 4 target zones (T.A.L.K) + many others lil spots that can be hit.Something so simple as licking a woman behind her ear can create a lil stream if you do it with passion.That expression on your gravitar will be the same one you express if you were to experience a kool encounter from an unselfish lover.Pleasing a woman is like finding a missing person...cover all areas and dig shallow and deep.It doesnt take a scholar if you dont really have any limits.
Posted on July 8, 2009 at 11:49 pm.

Khristal said:
I can tell in the look on your face Tyra....LMAO!
Posted on July 8, 2009 at 9:20 pm.

Tyralookalike said:
BLK if only it was that easy! However, I do love the explicit, detailed nature of your comment though.
Posted on July 8, 2009 at 8:32 pm.

Tyrone said:
That sound way too hard. I will just stick with getting my rocks off for now, if she is wifey material "maybe" I will do all that BlkAndUgly.
Posted on July 8, 2009 at 8:23 pm.

BlkAndUglyAzEver said:
I mean how hard can it be to please a woman?Well I guess it would help if it was hard.Seriously folks,kissing skills,nice tongue rotation for oral stimulation,strong hugs,firm holds,a variation of being rough and gentle,seminal control,sexual communication throw in some unselfishness let her achieve an orgasm say gimme the green light when it's cool 2 release...explode,job done.Nuff said!!!
Posted on July 8, 2009 at 2:34 pm.

?? THE IMFAMOUS MJ said:
CLUCKYYYYYY MY #1 FAN. XCUSE MY FRENCH BUT ONLY A B!T@# THAT AINT GETTING THE "D" WOULD MAKE THAT COMMENT. OOOOOPS I 4GOT WHAT YONAMEWUS GURAL!!. YEAH STICK WITH YOUR BUZZZZER!!
Posted on July 8, 2009 at 1:20 pm.

chickenhead4life said:
the problem with women nowadays is that they depend 2 much on a man...get a vibrator!
Posted on July 8, 2009 at 8:19 am.

Nicki Sunshine said:
" it’s how you say it. Stop just doing whatever to satisfy him..you can enjoy yourself too. " This statement is golden. I cannot stress how important speaking up is... Me and my beau talked about all things sexual before we even went there, so he already knew, none of that tongue-in-the-ear nonsense was gonna fly. lol.
Posted on July 7, 2009 at 4:21 pm.